Why You Should Join DSCL

Are you wondering how to make the most of your time as the spouse of a diplomat in London? Fisnik Musa explains why joining the Diplomatic Spouse Club London (DSCL) might just be the answer

When my wife received her diplomatic mandate to serve in London for four years in April 2023, I faced many dilemmas. Not because of the decision or the location, but because I had to pause my career and leave my job in the Office of the President of the Republic of Kosovo. As a high-ranking official with nearly 20 years of experience, the prospect of being not able to continue my professional activities for the duration of my wife’s mandate was daunting. Many spouses of diplomats can likely relate to this dilemma. However, joining my wife in London turned out to be a blessing in disguise, thanks to the Diplomatic Spouse Club London (DSCL).

At an event organised by the Embassy Network for the diplomatic community in London, I discovered the DSCL – a club that brings together spouses of diplomats through a variety of activities, visits to prestigious institutions, cultural and sports events, and tours of iconic London sites. The moment I learned about DSCL, I knew it was something I had to be a part of. The opportunity to meet other spouses, share experiences, and explore London together was too good to pass up. Joining DSCL was the best decision I made upon arriving in London.

DSCL members on a visit to St Paul’s Cathedral with the Dean The Very Reverend Andrew Tremlett

The Benefits of Membership
When I joined, DSCL had around 70 members, mostly women. The club’s Board Committee is elected annually by its members. I was honoured to be elected Vice President in my first year, and as the only male on the board, I work alongside seven remarkable women. This year marks DSCL’s 10th anniversary, and the club continues to grow and diversify, enriching the experience for all members.

DSCL members have served in various countries, bringing unique cultural experiences to the club. Through meetings and activities, we all benefit from this diverse background. One memorable experience was a private tour of the British Museum, where an expert guide shared fascinating insights into the exhibits. Another highlight was of being hosted on a captivating visit to St Paul’s Cathedral, London by the esteemed Dean, The Very Reverend Andrew Tremlett. We were privileged to learn about the rich history and remarkable contributions of this iconic institution, which stands as a beacon of London’s heritage. Like these visits, DSCL organises one almost every week, each one more special than the other.

Personal Growth and Community
Joining DSCL has not only provided a way to pass the time but has also fostered personal growth and community engagement. I have had the chance to develop new skills, from language group of Spanish and French speaking to different activities workshops, all organised by DSCL. These activities have not only kept me engaged but have also prepared me for future professional opportunities.

Encouragement to Join
As Vice President, I encourage all spouses of diplomats to join DSCL and discover a different side of London through our extensive range of monthly activities, most of which are free. It’s an opportunity to make friends, learn about London, and create lasting memories. And a special note to my fellow male spouses: the DSCL is not only a club for women. The programme of activities offers something that everyone – male or female – will enjoy.

Join us at DSCL to explore, learn, and make the most of your time in London. It’s an opportunity you won’t regret.

For more information about DSCL and membership inquiries, visit https://www.dsclondon.org.uk or contact londondiplomaticspouses@gmail.com.

Fisnik Musa
Vice-President
Diplomatic Spouse Club London